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ConfidenceFlying solo

Rediscovering your spark, starting with you

Before you look for it in someone else, learn to recognise it in yourself.

Mr. Desire

Writer at Notty Talks. Curious about desire, intimacy, and what actually keeps people feeling like themselves.

7 min readMay 6, 2025

Before you look for it in someone else, learn to recognise it in yourself.

Why it matters

In the flying solo chapter, this is where the real work — and the real reward — quietly lives. Small, honest choices, repeated.

Real talk, zero shame.

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Try one thing this week. Notice what shifts. Come back to it next Sunday.

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